I don’t know when it all started. I was sexual abused by my older brother, I didn’t understand what was going on but he told me I should suck on his private. Once he had his friend there and he said it has different flavors and I will like the taste. He told me it’s a secret and I would get in trouble if anyone finds out. It had to start young, he’s 4 years older than me. While sitting on my grandma lap she stuck her finger in my anus and I must of had a look on my face. She said she was checking if I had to poop, nothing never happen after that, that I remember. I feel robbed because my virginity was taken away for the longest time. I’m 52 years old now and I always wonder why pick me, did I have a certain look? I never told anyone not even my therapist. I’m ashamed.