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Don't stay quiet...

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Message to a Survivor

If something is happening please DONT stay quiet thats the least thing you should do. Your not alone even if it does feel like that reach out to someone tell them whats been going on. Last thing YOU ARE STRONG.

Message of Healing

It means taking time and peace to find something that makes you happy. There's gonna be moments where you get mad and wanna crash out but that's life and there's gonna be moments where you get sad and depressed but healing truly means loving yourself putting yourself first no matter what. MAKING SURE YOUR TRULY HAPPY WITH LIFE AND HAVING GOD IN YOUR LIFE TO HELP YOU HEAL.

Family doesn't always mean their family. I been sexually touched by two family members in my life. My stepdad and stepbrother who are both really close to me my stepdad basically raised me while I was also raised by my stepbrother. It started when I was going into middle school it was that summer I was around the age 10-11 going to 6th grade when my stepdad randomly started touching me sexually and make me do stuff I didn't wanna do at all. My body was telling me it was wrong but I didn't know what was going on. I didn't know about anything sexual or even sex I was still a little girl. This went on for a year or two where I stayed quiet cause I was afraid of saying anything. I ended up telling my ex friends but nothing changed I was just afraid to reach out then that's when I told my mom I started crying a lot and told her everything. She didn't believe me because she told him about it yet he rejected that he did anything in front of me. Then I told her I lied because I wanted to move to my dads since she didn't believe me. I told her a year after then that's when she believed me. Now there's cameras all over the house shes still with him and I started getting closer with God so I ended up forgiving both of them. Ever since he changed and now is a better stepdad.

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